The Rules of Love for Mistresses
By Blue Rose on Saturday, 28 of March , 2009 at 12:00 am
Many of us suffer from pain and losses in love. Thats the time we will ask, is there any right man for me? Could I still have my one true love? What if no more?
What if the love your looking for is in the wrong man? What will you do? What will be the consequences? Is this the right thing to do? Or I’m just afraid to face the fact that I’m getting old and nobody loves me?
But there are rules that you must give concerns in having this kind of relationships.
Never confuse his love for you with his love for his wife.
Yes, he loves you, he can love you and love his wife at the same time. But can a man truly love two different people at the sam time? Perhaps, you will never erase the fact that his wife and children are his first priority. Don’t expect too much when when he says “I love you more than I love my wife,” yes it can maybe true but look at the other way. He can tell you things that he experiences from his wife, his bad and good situation of his relationship to his wife. If you wan to continue your relationship with him, never bring up the subject that will make him uncomfortable and too sensitive for him.
Do not play emotional blackmail.
Never ever demand anything that will take concerns of his family. Asking him, “leave your family for me, or I will leave?” Yah you will be happy, but have you ever think of the consequences? Leaving his wife and children won’t help you get him freely. He will not be sure happy for it and he may be make an unexpected actions that will make you both un happy and worsen the situation. They are still bound in one, in Gods eyes and in peoples eyes. Just understand him if you want to keep him.
Accept that waiting and lying is part of the game.
You are just his second priority, always remember that, so expect that he will not come to you as early as you expected, or he may not come. You hate waiting but you cannot do anything about it, remember the rule no 1 and 2. He may lie to you in anything, expect it.
You must know that your still alone.
When your down, you know that he cannot comfort you. He cannot be with you everytime you need him, you must understand that you are just having some ample of his time. You will feel hurt because of the fact that you cant escape. When you started a relationship with him you already know that you are just a mistress.
It has to be more than sex.
Yes, for you it has to be more than sex. It has to do with binding of minds and spirit, when your with him, you feel secure and satisfied. But have you ever ask him if he feels the same. He will surely be satisfied because it’s the way it is. But ask yourself, are you inlove enough to erase and accept the fact that your not different to girls from the club that give one hour happiness. Yah, your different from them , because your not working there and your not having sex with different man, just look at the way he behaves and you will find out.
The best way is to quit.
It’s hard, of course, because you know in yourself that you need him and love him. But do you want to live all your life like that? What if you get pregnant, think of your childs future. You already heard of situations like that I’m sure. Make your pain as your stepping stone to move on and have another life that doesn’t have to hide and feel all the insecurities. That is the end of everything for you, you never know, there is still one man that is really meant for you. Cheer up.
Clues that he’s married:
- He will just give you his mobile number, office number, but not his home number.
- He will pay on cash whenever you two go out, to avoid suspision when he use his cards.
- He will not tell you where he lives and never bring you to his home.
- He will check everything on his clothes if there is lipstick, or perfume and always take shower after sex, that will leave some evidences.
- He will schedule your dates in advance, away from his wive’s suspicion.
- He will talk on the phone in business-like manner.
- He will not be available in major holidays and week ends.
- He will never show his affection in public.
- He will take you out in places that nobody knows him.
- He will always look around and behind, trying to be aware of the people around him.
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