Life and Love of a Filipina

Experienced Preferred…But not Required

By Blue Rose on Sunday, 2 of August , 2009 at 4:46 pm

I had read this book that my husband bought in Bangkok, Thailand 3 days before we get back home.

This book is about the experiences of foreign teachers in Thailand. How they teach, interact, their life stories in Thailand, how they perform their teaching. It’s quite entertaining for some of the stories are funny and some are inspiring.

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Establishing a teaching career to different parts of the world is interesting yet quite difficult, especially when you’re just starting to know the children you’re going to teach. In my experience as an English teacher of Korean children, it’s quite difficult if your students are beginners and doesn’t know how to speak even just a one word English, but you have to be patient, you are their guide and stepping stone in learning easy and fun English.

In some of the story written, as the title say experienced preferred…but not required, even if your not a graduate of any English courses but you have taken the TEFL you can teach with the starting of 30,000 baht. Lots of Western and American are there for this kind of job, and they doing quite well.

Some are just teaching to have an earnings while they are staying there, for them to have a work and pleasure, what I mean is they are receiving a salary of 40,000 baht/monthly, that’s quite a lot of money in Thailand and you can live happily and leisurely with that amount, and take note, for single male teachers having that kind of salary, they can have as many girls as they want every night. It’s true. Even if they don’t do their job very well they are still being paid, in one of the story, the lady is not really doing her job, just giving the students some paper works and she will go out to have a smoke then go back in the class to check, her reason for the new teachers that notice her is that the administrator doesn’t care, coz its not there to check if you are doing your job or not. Imagine the students paying big sum of money just to learn English…pity for them. This kind of teachers doesn’t belong in the honorable teachers list.

Some teachers are very keen on their work, they love their job, they devote some of their spare time to have a tutorial class to students that are willing and striving to learn the language. They are the best teachers that are giving importance to the students even if they belong to the high level of people in Thailand.

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You see, teachers are really different, in the Philippines you have to devote your time, energy, mind and power to teach the students what they have to learn. You have to care for each of your students learning coz you are their teacher and second parent. You have to guide them, in every road that they want to take, you have to be there in every ups and downs of their studies, you have to praise them in every accomplishments they made; you have to support them when they fail.

These are the noble teachers doing noble deeds and we salute them, if not because of them we are not in our position.

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Premature Ejaculation

By Blue Rose on Saturday, 4 of April , 2009 at 8:26 pm

What is Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation really just means: You cant’ last as long as you’d like to; you don’t have as much voluntary control over when you ejaculate as you wish you did. Ejaculatory control is a better way of talking and thinking about problem, rather than setting some arbitrary cutoff point that separates “normal” from “abnormal”.

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What causes it?

For any number of reasons, premature ejaculators never develop a normal sense of what genitals feel like when they are highly excited and about to come. It is the sensory deficit that is the key to the cause and also to the cure of inadequate ejaculatory control.

Often this pattern started early, when he learns to masturbate in the bathroom for 30 seconds flat for fear of getting caught. Or he learns to make love in the back seat of the old Chevy, or on the sofa at his girlfriend’s parent’s house. Because he’s frightened or feels guilty or ashamed, he rushes through the experience and never really become familiar when full-blown, extended erotic feelings. Rapid ejaculation becomes a learned behavior, a habit, which simply has to be unlearned. It doesn’t only happens to Filipino men but also guys from different parts of the world.

How to control it?

There’s a technique called the stop/start and squeeze. The start/stop involves stimulating the penis almost to the point of ejaculation, then stopping; stimulating it again, then stopping; and repeating this until the man learned to control his ejaculations. The squeeze technique: instead of simple stopping, the area just below the head of the penis is squeezed jus before the moment of ejaculation.

Most men don’t ejaculate as rapidly with the woman on top. When he has a firm erection, she slips down on the top of him. Then, holding her hips, he gently guides her body up and down, stopping when he nears ejaculation. Once ha can last 5 minutes or so, he begins moving his own hips as well. Some couples also like to use the side by side position, which also tends to delay ejaculation.

In the final phase of learning ejaculatory control, instead of stopping just at the point of ejaculation, the man simple slows down. Or he may deeply penetrate his lover and rock from side to side or roll his hips, churning his erection about with circular motion rather than thrusting in and out. This helps to sustain the pleasure before both partners are ready for the climax.

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