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		<title>Price to Love</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[On July 1 the government made it even more expensive and difficult for  couples with one Dane and one non-EU partner to live together in  Denmark.
Among other changes, the fee for the famously tough family  reunification application was raised to 7,775 kroner – a 30 percent hike  – while the compulsory four-year cash guarantee was raised from 63,000  to 100,000 kroner.
Information newspaper calculated that all told the cost of family  reunification – once fees, tests, and cash securities are tallied – is  now 168,131 kroner per couple, plus or minus a krone.

For young international couples, it is even tougher to stay together  in Denmark, because current family reunification rules also stipulate   <a style='color:red;' href='http://myblueheart.org/filipina/price-to-love.html' title='Click here to read more about Price to Love'>More &#187;</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On July 1 the government made it even more expensive and difficult for  couples with one Dane and one non-EU partner to live together in  Denmark.<br />
Among other changes, the fee for the famously tough family  reunification application was raised to 7,775 kroner – a 30 percent hike  – while the compulsory four-year cash guarantee was raised from 63,000  to 100,000 kroner.</p>
<p>Information newspaper calculated that all told the cost of family  reunification – once fees, tests, and cash securities are tallied – is  now 168,131 kroner per couple, plus or minus a krone.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1643" title="romantic picture1" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/romantic-picture1-300x205.jpg" alt="romantic picture1" width="300" height="205" /></p>
<p>For young international couples, it is even tougher to stay together  in Denmark, because current family reunification rules also stipulate  that both partners must be at least 24 years old.</p>
<p>Katrine Villumsen and Jessie Villarreal are one young, international  couple who have had to come up with creative solutions to be able to  stay together.</p>
<p>Villumsen, a journalism student from the Funen town of Faaborg, was  taking a year abroad to study in Santa Barbara, California, when she met  Villarreal, a young opera singer from Riverside, California. They were  both just 19.</p>
<p>They fell in love and after six months moved in together. In their  second year together, they began thinking about a more permanent  solution for their residency issues as an international couple. To  complicate matters, marriage was not a solution for the lesbian couple,  as US immigration laws do not recognise same-sex relationships.</p>
<p>“I think it would be easier for a Somalian to immigrate to the US  than to Denmark, but in our case, it’s easier for me to immigrate to  Denmark than for Katrine to immigrate to the US,” Villarreal told The  Copenhagen Post.</p>
<p>So two years ago the couple decided they had a better future in  Denmark, where their relationship is at least recognised by law, and  where – someday when they are old enough – they can apply for family  reunification as a couple.</p>
<p>“My desire to live in Denmark is greater than my desire to live in  the US and I feel safer here. Danish people are more apathetic about  being gay,” Villarreal said. “In the US people either love you or hate  you for being gay.”</p>
<p>As both women were just 21 years old in 2009 – still too young to  apply for family reunification – it was now Villarreal’s turn to use a  student visa to stay with her partner.</p>
<p>With foreign student tuition and no eligibility for the national  student stipend, the decision came at a high cost. Since both are still  students, they don’t earn much. But together they managed to get by,  working part-time, scrimping, saving and taking out loans.</p>
<p>But last month when Villarreal got a tuition bill of 100,000 kroner  for her final year of studies at The Royal Academy of Music – with  50,000 kroner due in just two weeks and 50,000 more in September, they  had no idea what to do.</p>
<p>Their life together depended upon her student visa. If she could not  pay, she would have to leave the country. Without any expectation of  success she decided to post a blog asking for loans or donations to  raise the money.</p>
<p>“[It was] a desperate plea. I felt pathetic writing it. But the responses were amazing.” Villarreal said.</p>
<p>Some 14,000 kroner in donations from strangers and friends poured in.  Villarreal’s colleagues at The Cockney Pub in Århus arranged two “Save  Jessie’s Arse” concerts that raised another 4,000 kroner.  Another  colleague she barely knew offered her a no-questions-asked,  interest-free loan of 20,000 kroner.</p>
<p>An even bigger loan of 50,000 kroner was offered by an international  couple who knew first-hand the difficulties of getting family  reunification in Denmark: Katrine’s Danish cousin and his Polish wife.  They met as students in Norway and had to borrow money from his parents  for their family reunification. Years later they were in the position to  pass along the favour to a younger international pair struggling with  immigration issues.</p>
<p>Villarreal and Villumsen both said they could not help but contrast  the outpouring of generosity and trust from strangers and acquaintances  eager to help with the tone of suspicion and distrust for immigrants in  the political debate and family reunification rules.</p>
<p>“There must be somebody supporting all these immigration rules, but it’s not the people we’re surrounded by,” Villumsen said.</p>
<p>The governing Liberal Party’s immigration spokesperson Karsten  Lauritzen defended the tougher immigration rules, including the higher  costs and so-called ‘points system’ by which foreign partners earn  ‘points’ to qualify to stay in Denmark through university degrees and  other benchmarks.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1644" title="romantic picture2" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/romantic-picture2-300x199.jpg" alt="romantic picture2" width="300" height="199" /></p>
<p>“When we get better applicants, we also bring in people who are  better prepared to become integrated,” Lauritzen told Politiken  newspaper earlier this month.</p>
<p>Villumsen sees things a different way.</p>
<p>“In Denmark we have Jante Law, where everyone is supposed to be equal  and nobody is better than anybody else,” she said. “But now it’s  turning into the situation where if you have a better education, then  you get to go first in line. We need people doing all types of work and  it shouldn’t matter if you come from India, the US, or wherever.”</p>
<p>“I just think it’s a shame that you can’t be with the person you love  in the country you come from, just because it comes down to  nationality,” she added.</p>
<p>When Villarreal finishes her Bachelor’s degree next year she will  lose her student visa and the couple’s immigration worries will start  all over again. But by then, they both will be 24 years old and will  have lived together in Denmark for three years. They plan to form a  civil union in September.</p>
<p>Then they will be eligible to apply for family reunification – as long as they can put 100,000 kroner in the bank.</p>
<p>Source: ScandAsia.com</p>
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		<title>She killed her boyfriend?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 12:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An 18 years old student has been arrested, accused by South Wales Police in killing his 22 years old boyfriend.
Her boyfriend’s body was found in the basement of her parent’s house, where she also lives. Her friends said, she got an A score in her grades and after school they went out to celebrate and continue the celebration in her parents house.
Later that night she met her boyfriend, nobody really knows what happen between her and Mr. Thomas (her boyfriend’s name). They know how much he loves Ms. McGrath (accused name).
Ms. McGrath happens to be a quite and good girl working and taking her school seriously says by her neighbors and friends. The incident really shocked them all and couldn’t  <a style='color:red;' href='http://myblueheart.org/filipina/she-killed-her-boyfriend.html' title='Click here to read more about She killed her boyfriend?'>More &#187;</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">An 18 years old student has been arrested, accused by South Wales Police in killing his 22 years old boyfriend.</span></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1398" title="the accused Ms. McGrath" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/the-accused-Ms.-McGrath.jpg" alt="the accused Ms. McGrath" width="233" height="448" /><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Her boyfriend’s body was found in the basement of her parent’s house, where she also lives. Her friends said, she got an A score in her grades and after school they went out to celebrate and continue the celebration in her parents house.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Later that night she met her boyfriend, nobody really knows what happen between her and Mr. Thomas (her boyfriend’s name). They know how much he loves Ms. McGrath (accused name).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Ms. McGrath happens to be a quite and good girl working and taking her school seriously says by her neighbors and friends. The incident really shocked them all and couldn’t believe in what had happen. They are also having second thoughts if she really can do the crime.</span></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1399" title="the victim Mr. Thomas" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/the-victim-Mr.-Thomas.jpg" alt="the victim Mr. Thomas" width="233" height="423" /></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Source: </span><a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1208421/A-level-student-accused-killing-boyfriend-party-celebrate-results.html#ixzz0P1AtqVRu"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">A-Level Student Accused Of Killing Boyfriend After Party To Celebrate Results</span></a><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"> [DailyMail</span></p>
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