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Danger of Sleep Walking

By Blue Rose on Tuesday, 13 of July , 2010 at 3:33 pm

Are you a sleep walker? Then wake up before you could do anything bad that you never expect will happen.

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This is a true Story.

The memories are still clear, especially when the night comes, never had peacefull sleep since it happens five years ago.

It was middle of the night, Sarah(not real name) and her daughter fall asleep in her daughter’s room. The party was over and one of her husbands friend fall asleep in thier sofa, never expecting that it will happen, Danny(not real name) suddenly walk up stairs and went to her daughter’s room naked and start to have sex with her, thinking it was her husband, she tought what is he doing? Shocked and surprised registered in his mind and body when she realize it’s not his husband, she felt the force of his body while trying to have sex with her. She tried to push him and screamed, when the police arrived they found him still asleep as if nothing had happened. They took him away and left Sarah totally traumatised.

Year later, Sarah saw him again in court, he pleade not guilty in account for rape, reason? According to Danny’s, he had been asleep so had no idea what he was doing. Despite having no medical history of sleepwalking, the jury was unable to decide ‘beyond reasonable doubt’, so he escaped conviction.

This case is never an end, In the last five years, there’s been an upsurge of incidents where sleepwalking – a form of automatism that leads to unconscious behaviour – has been used as a criminal defense.

Year 2008, Harry kissed an under-age girl in her room while sleepwalking, he claimed that sleepwalking ran in his family and he was asleep at that time.

Previous year, Ralf 26 and Dennis 21, was acquitted from rape case, pleaded not guilty, as they are both sleeping when the rape of under-age girls happens. Smart ways huh! It is very hard to prove which sleepwalkers are genuine.

It is estimated that eight percent of sleepwalker are children, but that falls to less than one percent to adulthood, with the majority of sufferers being male. Sleepwalking occurs when a person is joltedawake, but areas of the brain that control thinking, planning and memory remain asleep. Family history, genetics and sleep deprivation all plays a substantial part.

A tragedy occured in july 2008 during a holiday. After being disturbed by boy racers, Edward dreamed that an intruder had broken in, but instead of fighting a burglar, he trottled his wife to death. When he woke up and realized what he’d done, he called 999 to confess. He spent ten months on prison, but after medical records proved that it was a sleep disorder, the case was dropped and Edward was found simply ‘not guilty’.

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With a condition like this, the simple truth is that nobody ever truly knows. There are people who have the disorder, commit a crime and try to lean back on it to get away with it. One thing is certain, with the number of sleepwalking defence claims increasing all the time, it’s an issue that will remain.

What the law says

In English law – only people who have made a conscious decision to commit a crime can be punished. Sleepwalking is therefore often used as defence as its hard to prove and removes all responsibility.


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Sex Addict: Are You/2?

By Blue Rose on Tuesday, 19 of May , 2009 at 3:19 pm

Yes it is a sad fact.

Sex addicts usually have a recognizable profile. For one thing, the vast majorities are men – they outnumber women four to one, in fact. More than 80 percent have some other kind of addiction – to the bottle, to gambling, to drugs (cocaine is the drug of choice for sex addicts). They generally suffer from low self-esteem. And they almost invariably report having been abused as children. Sex addiction, in fact, may be one of the many long-range consequences of child abuse – tragedy in a slow fuse. Abused kids not only come to feel worthless, they also come to think humiliation and shame are a part of normal sexual expression.

A second level addict is those whose behavior has escalated into things that could get them arrested and often involves a victim – exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls. At this most extreme level, sex addiction can turn into the most heinous of crimes, like rape, incest or child molestation.

So many people have found themselves giving distressing answers to the factors that was stated before, and a nationwide sexual addiction recovery movement has emerged in the United States in recent years. Four major self-help groups, all of them modeled on the 12-step recovery program developed by Alcoholics Anonymous, have come into existence. The goal of this program, according to one recovering sex addict says recovering from alcoholism is a “walk on the beach” compared with overcoming the shame and degradation of sex addiction. Still, if you’ve got a problem, a self-help group may be your best hope. You may wish to contact national self-help group, which could have a local branch in your area (Sexaholics Anonymous, Box 300, Simi Valley, CA 93062; or Sex Addicts Anonymous, P.O. Box 3038, Minneapolis, MN 55403).

I hope and wish this may help even a little.


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