Life and Love of a Filipina » position http://myblueheart.org myblueheart.org Mon, 21 Nov 2011 08:00:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 en hourly 1 Kama Sutra Top Positions http://myblueheart.org/filipina/kama-sutra-top-positions.html http://myblueheart.org/filipina/kama-sutra-top-positions.html#comments Wed, 12 Aug 2009 22:32:44 +0000 My Blue Heart http://myblueheart.org/?p=1244 Sex shouldn’t resemble Naked Twister. Too much twisting and contorting can leave a woman feeling like a sexless member of Cirque du Soleil. “Unlike men, women can lose an orgasm almost in the midst of having one,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First and He Comes Next. The solution? This simple series of positions, designed to help you flow naturally from move to move without ending up like a flesh pretzel.

kamasutra_sexposition_missionary1Missionary – It’s tame, but it’s a natural starter because of strong eye contact, says Kerner. “But men often ejaculate faster because of the friction.” To last longer and keep her happy, switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.

kamasutra_sexposition_spider1Spider – Sit back and pull her toward you while you both lift your knees. “Physically, it allows her to feel a deeper, more intense, more intimate stimulation than missionary, with less friction,” says Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do.

kamasutra_sexposition_rev_cowgirlReverse Cowgirl – Encourage her to turn around and face away from you. This creates G-spot stimulation for her, and the change will help you hold out longer. If she seems uncomfortable on top, resume the spider or try the spork, two natural transitions.

kamasutra_sexposition_doggystyleDoggy-style – “It’s the most arousing position for men, because it’s the most primal,” says Linda Banner, Ph.D., author of Advanced Sexual Techniques. The angle also allows for deeper penetration, which ups your chances of stimulating her G-spot.

kamasutra_sexposition_bellyflopBelly Flop – Grab a pillow and enjoy a little downtime. “Lay the woman on her stomach with the pillow under her hips so her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance of hitting her G-spot,” says Banner. Extend your arms to keep the weight off her.

kamasutra_sexposition_lazymanLazy Man – Here’s another move that maintains intimacy. Simply lean back and gently pull her on top. “This can help women feel in control,” says Sarah Janosik, a sex therapist and cofounder and clinical director of the Austin Center for Sexual Medicine.

kamasutra_sexposition_sporkSpork – Similar to spooning but slightly more ambitious, this position makes a natural bridge to more creative positions. “If she’s limber enough, he can also lift her leg, thus increasing penetration”.

kamasutra_sexposition_manchairMan Chair – Once past the basics, positions become “more about psychological novelty”. Doggy-style is about your dominance, but from there you can naturally transition into this rear-entry position that puts her in the driver’s seat.

]]> http://myblueheart.org/filipina/kama-sutra-top-positions.html/feed 1 Six Ways to Obtain a Position http://myblueheart.org/filipina/six-ways-to-obtain-a-position.html http://myblueheart.org/filipina/six-ways-to-obtain-a-position.html#comments Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:49:56 +0000 Blue Rose http://myblueheart.org/?p=649 More »]]>
  • 1. Emptiness – the first requirement is to empty your mind of everything that does not pertain to your appointment to the position you seek. You must not have other goals, no other thoughts. You must concentrate on the desired appointment and meditate on it daily.Your time must also be empty. You must have the ability to wait however long it takes. You must see yourself in the post you desire and nowhere else. You are not going to take another job. If the appointment doe not come today, you will wait until tomorrow. If you don’t get the position this year, you will wait until next year.
  • 2. Boring In – you must seize every little opportunity to advance your prospects. When you find such an opportunity, you must try to enlarge it. If there are no opportunities, you must focus your thoughts on creating an opportunity. The image uses is of some hard objects pushing, probing, and boring away relentlessly.
  • 3. Self-Praise – you must constantly seek to bring your qualifications and importance to the attention of those who are in a position to help you.
  • 4. Flattery – you must ingratiate yourself with those who can help you. Flatter then to their faces. Praise them to others who will carry your words back tot hem.
  • 5. Threats – you must be very suitable with your threats, because you may unknowingly threaten people with great ability to do your harm. The threats should develop naturally out of your self-praise. Let you listener draw the conclusion that if you are so talented, it would be unfortunate if you were to end up in a rival ministry or even be appointed to a position of authority over him. If you are o well connected to important people, you might have the ability to make trouble for him if you are not accommodated.
  • 6. Bribery – there are two kinds of bribery. The first involves small gifts, meals, drinks. Often these small gifts create a sense of obligation far exceeding their cot. They should be given not only to the man who has the power to appoint you, but also to his relatives and friends. Large bribes are used to seal the appointment. They should also be given to those who have great influence with the official who has the power to appoint you.
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