By Blue Rose on Sunday, 2 of August , 2009 at 5:54 pm
Filipina girls, some are conservative some are not, Filipina’s are yet reserve for their feelings and attitudes.
Thai girls are not conservative at all; they are open in “every thing”, open minded, open in ideas, open in anything new. They don’t have reservation for their feelings and attitudes, maybe for some low class girls but for girls with breeding, sure they have reservation.
Filipina girls are religious and believe in Church, as a Catholic they believe in the Holy Bible and follow the teachings.
Thai girls are also religious; they have great faith in their Buddha and believe in their ways.
Filipina girls are polite, shy, kind and sweet. They pay great respect for the elderly and their family and parents.
Thai girls are also the same; most Asian’s have the same characteristics towards family. Thai girls are sweet and kind “if you have money”. If you don’t have they are also sweet and kind.
Filipina girls are loving and caring. They will love you until the end; just don’t make any moves that will lead them to leave you.
Thai girls are also loving and caring “especially” if you have money; they are extra caring and loving. If you don’t have money at all to provide their material things, say goodbye.
Filipina girls are supportive and hardworking; they provide everything for their family even if the husband doesn’t work.
Thai girls are also hardworking, they work to support their family but not their husband, if you don’t have money, sorry for you. They are supportive in telling you to find job always.
Filipina girls are quite and are not so talkative.
Thai girls are loud and talkative and noisy, they are more aggressive and straightforward.
These are just some of the characteristics and attitudes I had learn from our 1 month of stay in Bangkok, Thailand. I remember my husband told me one evening when we are having a conversation, when he went to a massage parlor, coz he always likes to have foot massage, he said one of the Thai girls says, she likes him, spoken indirectly coz she doesn’t know how to speak English, just the other masseur told my husband. Then my husband replied, “sorry I’m with my wife”, the girl said, its ok I want to be your girlfriend. See how they are so aggressive and open minded, and of course my husband is a European so they thought he has a lot of money to provide them what they want. Maybe some of the Filipinas are also thinking like that, but as known they are more concern on their husbands love and care than the money. And that’s for sure.
By Blue Rose on Wednesday, 22 of July , 2009 at 11:54 am
Who is the real hero? What is the basis for us to say that he/she is a hero? Does he/she need to die for the country just to be called “HERO”?
Well, that is not just the basis, if you will look up around you, you can find the true heroes, the live heroes, just walking around you.
What am I talking about? Filipinas, they are the new generation heroes of our nation. Lots of Filipinas work hard for their families, lots of Filipinas flies everyday out of the country to be a DH (Domestic Helpers) or OCW (Overseas Contract Workers), or OFW (Overseas Filipina/Filipino Workers). They gamble their life, their happiness with their family and children, just to give them a good life that they cannot get here in our country. Why they have to go overseas if they can work here in the Philippines? Good question. But, difficult to answer, did you ever ask yourself about that?
Some of the Filipinas get the good job, good employer, but some are unfortunate, got beaten by their employers, raped, overworked with less payment and worst of all if your really unfortunate they went home cold and placed in the casket. Lots of eventual things like this happen for decades. Heroes they are called by our government, when they land “dead” in our airport, they pay tribute and do lots of things to help and show of for the family and people. But, come to think of it, have they done enough to help them when they are still alive?
Look at the news today, there are Filipinas and Filipinos who are in death row abroad, I know our government is doing something to help them, but, try hard and do your best to protect them.
A bow and head rose for the Filipinas, they give their life and death to help our country, they are the number one reason why our economy is growing, because of their love and care our life is a lot better now than before, because of their hard work and sacrifices lots of work opportunity are existing in our country.
I think its time to give them a real hero’s welcome.
By Mr.Pancake on Sunday, 19 of July , 2009 at 6:30 am
Are you really focused on what you want in life or are you just sleeping trough life. A very important part of having success is to focus on outcomes. To do what you need to know, of what outcomes you want. Sadly most people are just living life from day to day. Hoping things will be better tomorrow.
Focus is really needed if you want to become successful at anything. With Focus I mean being able to stay on track with your goals in life. To reach this goals there are actions that will help you achieve them.
In order to stay focused, you will need to know several things:
- Know where you are going
- Know how to get there
- Do whatever it takes to get there
Now do you see the importance of knowing what you want and forming a solid plan? Without those steps, staying focused would be nearly impossible.
Personally, I am tired of people that don’t want to work hard enough. Most people are just talking a lot, but when it comes to doing the real work there is nothing. The way to be successful is clearly to work on being successful and to work on what you want to achieve. Watching the latest movie on TV is not going to get you there, but it will pass your time. To get anywhere have a price. Even if you just want to fly from Hong Kong to Manila. It is not free. You have to pay a price. It is the same with our life. To get where we want to go have a price. Are you willing to pay that price?
Before you know where you are going you need to have dreams. Dreaming and working are both fun in their own rights, but much more productive together. Spend your life only dreaming and you clearly will end up very frustrated. Spend your life only working and your energy will go away and you end up nowhere. Working without a clear goal is demoralizing when you have little to show for it at the end of the day.
Getting Focused is an essential element of success. The pleasure of purposeful work is what drives successful people to bigger and better heights.
Do you have any tricks on how to Focus? Please let me know by leaving a comment below.
