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Diamonds; a gift from straying husband

By Blue Rose on Wednesday, 19 of August , 2009 at 4:27 pm

The secret of a long marriage was simple for Robert and Elizabeth Charlton. Every time he cheated on his wife he would make it up by buying her a gift.

The remarkably forgiving Mrs. Charlton wasn’t satisfied with mere flowers, however.

Instead, she acquired diamond jewelry whenever her wealthy husband strayed – and it seems they both notched up quite a collection in their 26 years together.

While Mr. Charlton enjoyed the opportunities offered to a businessman running two nightclubs and an underwear packing business, his wife is said to have equally cherished the necklaces, earrings, bracelets and rings the errant entrepreneur bought her.

The collection of 43 jewelry items in Mrs. Charlton’s jewelry box was passed on to their only daughter and has now sold for nearly £300,000.

diamonds are foreverThe most expensive item was a necklace made up of 54 diamonds, thought to have been bought from Carrington and Co of Regent Street, which was auctioned for £60,000.

A large pendant in the shape of a diamond and a brooch each went for £53,000 and a chunky diamond solitaire ring sold for £23,000.

A pair of drop earrings went for £22,000 while a gold bangle with nine diamonds fetched £25,000, including the auctioneer’s cut.

According to the family the couple’s arrangement meant their marriage thrived from when they wed in 1948 until Mr. Charlton died, aged 63, in 1974.

Clare Durham, of auctioneers Woolley and Wallis of Salisbury, Wiltshire, said: ‘It would seem that any time Mr. Charlton was naughty and played away he bought his wife a nice bit of jewelry to keep her sweet.

‘She was well aware of what was going on – he cheated on her a lot. It may have been more than 43 times, because the families have kept some of the pieces, or it may have been less.

‘Certainly the best, most expensive pieces were bought when he played away. His daughter was fully aware of what was going on at the time and the family has told us the story – it was no secret to anyone.

It is not clear if Mr. Charlton had been married before but he had an 11-year-old daughter, Marie, when he wed Elizabeth and she took the girl as her own. When Mrs. Charlton died in 2006, aged 90, she left the collection of jewelry to Marie.

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The seller has not commented on her decision to sell the heirlooms, but did provide the auctioneers with plenty of her parents’ life history.

Of the jewelry sold by her firm, she said: ‘It is a beautiful collection of fine diamond jewelry. There were 43 items in total and most of it dates back to the late Victorian and early Edwardian period.

‘It would have been antique when it was bought in the 1950s and 1960s. The standout piece is definitely the necklace which is just beautiful.’ (mailonline)

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Six Ways to Obtain a Position

By Blue Rose on Wednesday, 15 of April , 2009 at 9:49 pm

  • 1. Emptiness – the first requirement is to empty your mind of everything that does not pertain to your appointment to the position you seek. You must not have other goals, no other thoughts. You must concentrate on the desired appointment and meditate on it daily.Your time must also be empty. You must have the ability to wait however long it takes. You must see yourself in the post you desire and nowhere else. You are not going to take another job. If the appointment doe not come today, you will wait until tomorrow. If you don’t get the position this year, you will wait until next year.
  • 2. Boring In – you must seize every little opportunity to advance your prospects. When you find such an opportunity, you must try to enlarge it. If there are no opportunities, you must focus your thoughts on creating an opportunity. The image uses is of some hard objects pushing, probing, and boring away relentlessly.
  • 3. Self-Praise – you must constantly seek to bring your qualifications and importance to the attention of those who are in a position to help you.
  • 4. Flattery – you must ingratiate yourself with those who can help you. Flatter then to their faces. Praise them to others who will carry your words back tot hem.
  • 5. Threats – you must be very suitable with your threats, because you may unknowingly threaten people with great ability to do your harm. The threats should develop naturally out of your self-praise. Let you listener draw the conclusion that if you are so talented, it would be unfortunate if you were to end up in a rival ministry or even be appointed to a position of authority over him. If you are o well connected to important people, you might have the ability to make trouble for him if you are not accommodated.
  • 6. Bribery – there are two kinds of bribery. The first involves small gifts, meals, drinks. Often these small gifts create a sense of obligation far exceeding their cot. They should be given not only to the man who has the power to appoint you, but also to his relatives and friends. Large bribes are used to seal the appointment. They should also be given to those who have great influence with the official who has the power to appoint you.
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