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Pillow Talk

By Blue Rose on Monday, 3 of August , 2009 at 4:48 pm

Do favors to your body – stop crimping on the sleep you deserve

In the same light as time, love, and chocolate, sleeps has become one of many luxuries in life a lot of people long to have more of. But nowadays, people are sleeping 20 percent less compared to the last century. Does this mean we are making better use of out time because we don’t sleep as much anymore? Apparently, the answer is no.

8 is the magic number – It’s been stated time and again that, eight hours is the ideal length of time for a good night’s sleep. But there are natural born short sleepers who will survive just fine with four to five hours of sleep (Martha Stewart, for example), just as there are natural born long sleepers who will need more than eight. The right amount of sleep should be able to accommodate protein synthesis in the most efficient way. It is during our sleep that the growth hormone is secreted and protein anabolism occurs for our skin repairs, nails, bones, cartilages, ligaments, and hair growth – making it vital that we are all sleeping soundly at night. That is why most of the men and women ages 40 and up are losing hairs, because during that age gap they can’t sleep normal as before. Reasons, well it’s up for you to think.

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Shattering sleep myths – many myths tends to get in the way of a healthy attitude towards sleep. The paradigm must be shifted to make the most of the one-third of our lives spent under the comforter – making it important to set the following misconceptions straight:

- Sleep is a waste of time. Many people complain that they could accomplish so much if they used the time they spend sleeping for something else. But it is through a good night’s sleep that we can repair and recharge our minds and bodies to function efficiently and creatively during the day when we are awake.

- You can learn to need less sleep. If one can wear contacts to change the color of their eyes, or wear a girdle to keep love handles in place, it’s not the same for sleep. Just like DNA, we are all born with a sleep capacity and need. “Training” one-self to get by on less rest equals walking through life like a sleep-deprived zombie.

- Falling asleep quickly means you have well sleep habits. According to specialist Michael Thorpy, director of the Sleep-Wake Disorder Center at New York’s Montefiore medical Center, people who say “I can sleep anytime, anywhere”, actually have a pathological tendency for sleep problems. “Most people take about 12 minutes to drop off at night. Anything less than five indicates serious sleep debt,” says psychologist Donald B. Weaver of Dallas’ Sleep Medicine Institute at Presbyterian Hospital.

- Afternoon naps are sign of laziness. Our body’s alertness level naturally hits a low between two to four o’clock in the afternoon. Like taking an aspirin for headaches, naps are a good solution to feeling tired.

- A heavy lunch will bring on the urge to nap. The notion that a big meal will lead to a sleeping spree is false. This is so, though not because of the meal, but because of the natural dip of alertness during the mid afternoon hours and the craving to make up for overall sleep deprivation.

- Spicy food causes bad dreams. According to Rosalind Cartwright, director of the Sleep Disorder Service and Research Center at Rush-Presbyterian St. Luke’s Medical Center in Chicago, “There is no relation between food and dreams.” Indigestion, however, can easily wake one up abruptly from sleep and if this happens right after a specific dream, you will most likely remember it. (Though an uncomfortable stomach plus an extreme dose of dreaming can, indeed, feel like a nightmare).

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Sleep doesn’t have to be an indulgence or a weekend treats. We must alter our perceptions and re-educate ourselves on the value of sleep as a necessary part of our daily lives. Just like exercise and eating right, sleeping is an integral part of the entire wellness cycle – and vital to living our waking hours to the fullest.

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Trust the lord and tie up your camel

By Mr.Pancake on Saturday, 4 of July , 2009 at 9:56 am

How to be “Lucky”

The awful thing about claiming that somebody is “Lucky” is that it dismisses responsibility. You can’t make luck happened, you just have to wait for it to strike unexpectedly. Sometimes that is right and random events do happen to help or hinder our lives for unknown reasons. However, there are other times when what we call “Luck” is much more under our control.
Success Magazine is a fantastic magazine. Photo by crartist flickr.com

Opportunity of some sort is always around, so you can see luck as our willingness to be open to a given opportunity.

There is an Eastern saying “Trust the lord and tie up your camel”. For me that is what luck is all about. It underlines the varying elements of success: You need to trust that the universe, life, God or Allah – whatever you choose to call it will support you. All you have to do is to be willing and to take action. You have to put your energy into the success. Remember nobody ever won a race they did not enter.

I’m sure you may have heard this many times before: “Trust the lord and tie up your camel”. We can’t just walk around and not take precautions in life and say “I trust in God, so I’ll be alright”. You can’t just leave the keys in your car and go in the store and just think that because you trust in God that the car is going to be there when you get back. You might trust in God, but there are a lot of people out there that don’t believe in God and your car may just be gone.

To reach the point where other people claim you have been “Lucky” will normally require you to move from one end of the other of the life alignment curve. You will have to tie up our camel like:

  • Review Opportunities
  • Explore Implications
  • Ask for Help
  • Experiment with a New Style
  • Get a New Job
  • Move to a New Country

Lucky people take responsibility for what happens to them and how they respond to it, so life moves with them. Call it luck if you have to, just remember that you create your own luck by accepting the part you have to play.

Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it and do it. Boldness have genius, power and imagination in it.

Unbelievably hard-working Rosa who works until she drops. Photo by normalityrelief flickr.com

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