Have you ever dreamed of your ex-boyfriend? or your wedding day? Me too! So I read this book about love dreams decoded and I want to share it all to you.

Whether you imagined reconnecting with your ex or your man proposing with stone less ring, love reveries can be bizarre. But it pays to dig a little to know what they mean. But how do you make sense of such off-the -wall stuff? First, recognize your feelings then try to give meaning to the images you recall. Since dreams are subjective, its impossible to give one-size fits all meaning. But to get started, check out these interpretations I have read from my book about the most common love-related fantasies.

The Dream 1: Surprise – you’re back with your ex boyfriend.

Decoded: It doesn’t necessarily mean you crave a repeat romance. But on some level, he’s influencing you. If he’s a good ex, this means that your memories with him have become a positive force in your life. Maybe he helped you feel more confident. If he was a not, then it could reflect being trapped emotionally in the old relationship or sign that you’re hanging with someone who has the same sketchy traits.

The Dream 2: Your guy betrays you, like by cheating or lying.

Decoded:Has your current guy let you down lately, such as not comforting you after a bad day? Then this is why you are getting this dream.

The Dream 3: You cheated on your man and ruined your relationship with him. Ouch!

Decoded: When a relationship starts to matter more this nocturnal fantasy will be more likely to appear. The dream may be like you are falling in love with a guy best friend.  The dream is letting us know how important your current relationship is with you and that you have to take care of it.

The Dream 4: You’re engaged but there is something off about your ring. The diamonds are missing! What worst than having a stoneless engagement ring?  Or it could be that the engagement ring that you have is so ugly.

Decoded: The focus of this dream is the look of the ring so it refers to appearance versus the substance of your relationship.This dream means that you don’t have security with your current flame. You seem like a perfect couple but deep inside you know that he truly doesn’t get you. In short you are not convinced that he is the one!

The Dream 5: Your wedding is strange. The groom is faceless! Arrgh!

Decoded: In this dream you are trying out what it feels like to take the next step, whether its becoming exclusive with a guy you’re casually dating or marrying your long term boyfriend. This means that you shouldn’t rush things out with him. You still have a few kinks to iron out, so you have to wait until you are sure.

My fellow ladies you can choose to believe these things or not. But I for one have had these dreams, and I am just trying to make sense of it all. And it actually came to me after reading the book ,  that these interpretations were true in my case. It doesn’t hurt to read an educate yourself just as long as you know how to handle these information.

Attaining our hearts’ desires to be happy is not an easy thing that can be obtained in just one blink of an eye. We are forced to take a stride but the roads are bumpy and at times, every step could be painful. These circumstances lead us into feeling the opposite – sadness, frustrations, annoyance, anxieties, all sorts of negative feelings.

Eventually, many of us tend to forget that true happiness and contentment is just around the corner. It is just a matter of state of mind but one has to make the decision to recognize it. No matter how chaotic things may seem to us, at home, at work, or with people around, if we are able to develop a positive outlook, happiness is just a way to go.

Just recently, I realized that seeing a very big lizard crawling at the gate of the zoo after his smooth escape or taking a candid photo of a friend can brighten up my day. Just the thought of silly things, reminiscing memorable memories while the traffic caught the bus on your way to work, rewarding yourself for a good daydream, humming a lullaby, these silly things can actually create a smiley mark in your heart. There is something that we can do to make a simple stuff special, and that is to give it a meaning.

Alright, so much of the superficial idea. Seriously, the best way to accept misfortunes, problems, and the like which are barriers of happiness is to look at the positive side of things. I once applied for a job and was very determined to start my career path on that company. When it was my turn to be interviewed, all of a sudden I started to share about my plans of taking a masters degree, working in a developing country, everything that came out veer away with the kind of job I was applying. I never got the job but in my thoughts I knew that I can have something better. Very soon after the incidence, I land in a job abroad.

If I only let myself mourn over the loose, I would have lost my self confidence and suffer from the agony of self pity. On the contrary, I chose to accept things with gladness and looking at the brighter side allowed me to fully enjoy life happily. We may have different stories but the idea is just the same I think.

Now, I don’t need to burn my eyebrows to the idea of achieving great things to find happiness. I can be happy by just walking in a park, getting a good night sleep, eating my favorite cookies and cream or reading a horoscope everyday. These are just simple things that we sometimes fail to enjoy and appreciate because we never thought that true happiness that’s deep from within our hearts is just around. It just takes a positive attitude coupled with simplicity in our way of life and appreciation of the beauty and meaning around us that we can reach the zenith of bliss.