By Miss Thea on Monday, 21 of November , 2011 at 9:00 am
Have you ever dreamed of your ex-boyfriend? or your wedding day? Me too! So I read this book about love dreams decoded and I want to share it all to you.
Whether you imagined reconnecting with your ex or your man proposing with stone less ring, love reveries can be bizarre. But it pays to dig a little to know what they mean. But how do you make sense of such off-the -wall stuff? First, recognize your feelings then try to give meaning to the images you recall. Since dreams are subjective, its impossible to give one-size fits all meaning. But to get started, check out these interpretations I have read from my book about the most common love-related fantasies.
The Dream 1: Surprise – you’re back with your ex boyfriend.
Decoded: It doesn’t necessarily mean you crave a repeat romance. But on some level, he’s influencing you. If he’s a good ex, this means that your memories with him have become a positive force in your life. Maybe he helped you feel more confident. If he was a not, then it could reflect being trapped emotionally in the old relationship or sign that you’re hanging with someone who has the same sketchy traits.
The Dream 2: Your guy betrays you, like by cheating or lying.
Decoded:Has your current guy let you down lately, such as not comforting you after a bad day? Then this is why you are getting this dream.
The Dream 3: You cheated on your man and ruined your relationship with him. Ouch!
Decoded: When a relationship starts to matter more this nocturnal fantasy will be more likely to appear. The dream may be like you are falling in love with a guy best friend. The dream is letting us know how important your current relationship is with you and that you have to take care of it.
The Dream 4: You’re engaged but there is something off about your ring. The diamonds are missing! What worst than having a stoneless engagement ring? Or it could be that the engagement ring that you have is so ugly.
Decoded: The focus of this dream is the look of the ring so it refers to appearance versus the substance of your relationship.This dream means that you don’t have security with your current flame. You seem like a perfect couple but deep inside you know that he truly doesn’t get you. In short you are not convinced that he is the one!
The Dream 5: Your wedding is strange. The groom is faceless! Arrgh!
Decoded: In this dream you are trying out what it feels like to take the next step, whether its becoming exclusive with a guy you’re casually dating or marrying your long term boyfriend. This means that you shouldn’t rush things out with him. You still have a few kinks to iron out, so you have to wait until you are sure.
My fellow ladies you can choose to believe these things or not. But I for one have had these dreams, and I am just trying to make sense of it all. And it actually came to me after reading the book , that these interpretations were true in my case. It doesn’t hurt to read an educate yourself just as long as you know how to handle these information.
By Blue Rose on Sunday, 12 of September , 2010 at 2:37 pm
These men are featured in this issue, we asked them of what they think of girls.
Q1. Do men or women tend to want to speed up relationships?
Ted: ”Guys like to go with the flow and keep ur options open.”
Mike: ”Sometimes you secretly want those milestones. You just don’t want her to see it.”
Sigfred: ”If you start seeing a woman and have sex, it’s only a matter of time before she asks, ‘Where’s this going?’ but most guys don’t want that milestone to come along. We’d like the stage where we’re just having sex to last forever!”
Q2. Do guys ever ask the question, ‘So where is this going?’
Erik: ”I think asking is tempting fate. You might not like the answer.”
Ted: ”Yes, but if a girl wants to know where we’re going, i need to know where she thinks we’re going first.”
Q3. How soon after meeting a girl do you start calling her your girlfriend?
Mike: ”You’re more likely to say it to your mates first, rather than her. I’ve been burnt like taht; jumping the gun.”
Sigfred: ”I’ve had quite a few girlfriends in my time but it was usually because they forced me into a corner. I met someone and knew that I wanted to be with her after only a week.”
Q4. How long should a girl wait before she has sex with you?
Mike: ”Not until she’s established where she is with a guy. If a woman sleeps with you early on, then asks where your relationships going, you’re going to say, we’re just having sex. If a girl doesn’t want to get hurt, she should work out what kind of relationship she wants before sex.”
Q5. Do men ever want to wait?
Erik: ”Every guy would love to have sex on the first date, but if you don’t then you actually apprecaite her more. A relationship outside sex builds a stronger bond.”
Q6. How do you feel when the girl starts leaving her toothbrush at yours?
Ted: ”As long as she doesn’t take control of the TV remote, that’s fine with me.”
Mike: ”She should ask first . I had a girl who left some knickers in one of my drawers. I called her and said, ‘next time you come over, you’ve got some stuff to collect.’ it didn’t go down well.”
Erik: ”Girls are like animals – they come round and leave stuff, like they’re marking thier territory.”
Q7. How about her meeting your parents?
Sigfred: ”I love with my mum so I’ll tell her when i’ts a serious girlfriend that I’m bringing home. But if she doesn’t warm to her she’ll pass comment infront of her. She’ll say, ‘I don’t like her, I’ve got a feeling’. I’ll say, ‘okay, Mum, we’ll talk about it later.”
Q8. Does it mean anything when you take a girl to a work do or wedding?
Mike: ”Work dos can be risky because you may behave differently when you’re with work colleagues.”
Sigfred: ”I ‘d have to be with a girl for at least two years before taking her to a wedding.”
Ted: ”I got an invitation to my cousin’s wedding, address to me and my girlfriend. That felt official.”
Erik: ”That means it’s official!”
Q9. How do you let a girl know she’s special?
Mike: ”Doing stuff that she mentioned shows her you’re paying attention.”
Ted: ”When i was serious about my girlfriend, I took her to Paris. I never normally do anything like that, so when i did that to her, it showed I really liked her.”
Erik: ”I’d rather show her I like her than tell her, so I’ll buy her stuff to make her happy.”
Q10. What should a girl do if your birthday is within the first few months of you seeing each other?
Ted: ”Birthday sex!”
Sigfred: ”If she just got me a card, I’d be happy with that.”
Q11. How long before you’ll go on holiday together?
Mike: ”You have to be girlfriend or boyfriend before that happens. It’s a massive one.”
Erik: ”I’ve known my girlfriend for six years but we’re going away on holiday for the first time this winter.”
Q12: Does it freaks you out when a girl starts relying on you for support?
Sigfred: ”I think it can be quite empowering when you’re the only one she turns to.”
Mike: ”So long as she doesn’t put it all on your shoulders. It should be a partnership.”
And so our featured guys go on with thier life as bieng single and continuing of what they believe to be the right thing to do about girls.
