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		<title>The Missing Piece</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 07:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
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Have you ever felt that there is something missing in your relationship?
You have family that loves you, you have work that provides everything you need to survive, you have friends that can be there for you when you need them, except if they are busy, you have boyfriend girlfriend or husband/wife that adores you, if they adores you.
If they adores you? What does it mean? Yah, you have boyfriend/husband, girlfriend/wife but do you  feel that they love you or even have just a little feelings for you not just the word &#8216;I Like You&#8217;.
Yah, you are being praised when you did something really good that he/she likes, but what do you feel when you are being compared to somebody  <a style='color:red;' href='http://myblueheart.org/filipina/the-missing-piece.html' title='Click here to read more about The Missing Piece'>More &#187;</a>]]></description>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Have you ever felt that there is something missing in your relationship?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">You have family that loves you, you have work that provides everything you need to survive, you have friends that can be there for you when you need them, except if they are busy, you have boyfriend girlfriend or husband/wife that adores you, if they adores you.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">If they adores you? What does it mean? Yah, you have boyfriend/husband, girlfriend/wife but do you  feel that they love you or even have just a little feelings for you not just the word <strong>&#8216;I Like You&#8217;.</strong></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Yah, you are being praised when you did something really good that he/she likes, but what do you feel when you are being compared to somebody else that has been in his/her life?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Does it feel like a sharp dagger that struck into your chest?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">You are happy being with him/her and can be with him/her for the rest of your life, but does he/she feel the same?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">You accept him/her as what he/she is, everything that connects in his/her life, but do you feel that you are still being ignored, set aside?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">There is a line that maybe adapted in this situation, <strong>&#8216;I was never your partner, I&#8217;m just your wife/husband&#8217;. </strong>Does it applies in your life?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Have you figured out what is missing?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><strong>Respect. Acceptance. Love. Feelings.</strong></p>
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		<title>The Ex Files #3</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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The Male Non-Negotiable


“Trust is a topmost factor in a 	relationship, I was going out with someone I really liked before, 	but she already had a boyfriend. It didn&#8217;t bother me at first that 	she had to keep lying to her boyfriend whenever we were together – 	until I found out that she was doing the same thing to me. That was 	the real deal breaker. She turned out to be someone I would have a 	hard tie loving because I couldn&#8217;t trust her.” &#8211; Eric 27, 	restaurant manager


“I had an ex-girlfriend who had 	a very tough time making her mind up about anything. And if she did 	decide on something, she would often change her mind at the most 	annoying  <a style='color:red;' href='http://myblueheart.org/filipina/the-ex-files-3.html' title='Click here to read more about The Ex Files #3 '>More &#187;</a>]]></description>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><strong>The Male Non-Negotiable</strong></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“Trust is a topmost factor in a 	relationship, I was going out with someone I really liked before, 	but she already had a boyfriend. It didn&#8217;t bother me at first that 	she had to keep lying to her boyfriend whenever we were together – 	until I found out that she was doing the same thing to me. That was 	the real deal breaker. She turned out to be someone I would have a 	hard tie loving because I couldn&#8217;t trust her.” &#8211; Eric 27, 	restaurant manager</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“I had an ex-girlfriend who had 	a very tough time making her mind up about anything. And if she did 	decide on something, she would often change her mind at the most 	annoying of times. Even if she didn&#8217;t particularly enjoy the idea of 	something she&#8217;d say&#8217; up to you,&#8217; keep it to herself, and act sullen 	after, leaving me to wonder why. It quickly got quite frustrating. 	Everything would have been fine if she had only been a bit more 	decisive about things and more vocal with her opinions. For me, 	saying what&#8217;s on your mind is definitely better.” &#8211; Troy 27, 	accountant</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“Be open minded, understanding, 	and don&#8217;t make up stories based on your jealous frenzy. I once had 	an ex who would immediately suspect that I was flirting with a girl 	just because I was having a good conversation with her. Her baseless 	suspicions made me feel unnecessarily insecure whenever a girl 	talked to me. In the end, I couldn&#8217;t stand her pretty jealousy, so I 	broke up with her.” &#8211; Jack 32, executive manager</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“Long distance relationships are 	usually painful and upsetting, but sometimes a few guys come along 	that are actually willing to wait. Not all guys are dumb and 	insensitive. Remember that and maybe you&#8217;ll learn to give someone 	decent a fair chance next time.” &#8211; Eddie 30, research analyst</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“Some girls are so possessive 	and jealous. Give your guys some space and leave us alone once in 	awhile! We&#8217;ll end up coming back to you more often than you&#8217;d 	think.” &#8211; Robbie 28, IT analyst</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><strong>Braving the Breakup</strong></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“For goodness&#8217;s sake, don&#8217;t 	break up with a guy through text or email! Have the maturity and 	decency to break up with him face to face.” &#8211; Cholo 26, law 	student</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“When guys bail, we often have 	doubts about it. But let us deal with it on our own. We&#8217;ll beg you 	back when we finally realize we&#8217;ve lost you for real. That time, 	we&#8217;ll be so into the chase all over again.” &#8211; Robert 28, artist</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“When relationships are cut, 	they should be cut cleanly. There&#8217;s no use in going back to your ex 	to find what went wrong. A person has to find that out for his or 	her own self. Allot time to heal and do some self-reflection.” &#8211; 	Froilan 29, nurse</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“I&#8217;m not supposed to spill this 	out, but really, the best way to get back at someone who broke your 	heart is to be fine without him. When the girl we broke up with 	seems super fine, it affects our ego and we think,&#8217;Aba! Why in the 	world is she okay without me?” &#8211; Devy 30, chef</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“Don&#8217;t stay with your boyfriend 	just because you&#8217;re afraid to hurt him. If the feeling&#8217;s no longer 	there or you&#8217;re beginning to think about other guys, end your 	relationship right away. Be fair to your clueless boyfriend and to 	yourself..” &#8211; Albert 23, student</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">“Even if we did the breaking up, 	we still second guess our decision. When you start begging us to 	stay. Our decision to leave just becomes more justified.” &#8211; Jerry 	27, computer technologist</p>
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		<title>The Ex Files</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 06:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learn from your past – and be the best girlfriend
You need not wish an ex-boyfriend ill. Instead, make better use of your time and emotions by taking advantage of bitter breakups and dude dramas – and coming out the truly better half.
It didn’t work out. Now what? Whether your boyfriend ducked out or you called it quits, truth is, you can learn a thing or two from each failed relationship. Ultimately, it’s you – because you have full control over how your next relationship can be better. Here, we help you pick up self-improvement cues from your ex-boyfriend’s raves and rants. Listen closely and learn how to makeover your girlfriend style and ready yourself for Mr. Next.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learn from your past – and be the best girlfriend</p>
<p>You need not wish an ex-boyfriend ill. Instead, make better use of your time and emotions by taking advantage of bitter breakups and dude dramas – and coming out the truly better half.</p>
<p>It didn’t work out. Now what? Whether your boyfriend ducked out or you called it quits, truth is, you can learn a thing or two from each failed relationship. Ultimately, it’s you – because you have full control over how your next relationship can be better. Here, we help you pick up self-improvement cues from your ex-boyfriend’s raves and rants. Listen closely and learn how to makeover your girlfriend style and ready yourself for Mr. Next.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1492" title="handsome sexy guy2" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/handsome-sexy-guy2-228x300.jpg" alt="handsome sexy guy2" width="228" height="300" /></p>
<p><strong>What Makes You Girlfriend Material</strong></p>
<p>- “Having ambition and goals is a big turn-on for guys. Men may base their first impressions on women’s looks or sense of humor, but we really do looks for hints as to how a woman’s personality will pan out in the long run. Will she be dependable, or will she just drag a man down?” – Sandy, 32, manager</p>
<p>- “A girl should go out with someone who’s more like her. I think my ex was a bit too aggressive and neurotic for me while I was laidback and lazy. We both tried to compromise by becoming more like the other person. That led a lot of tension and unneeded resentment.” – Nathan, 27, call center agent</p>
<p>- “Pretty girls are used to being chased by guys. So when they get into a serious relationship, they forget that they have to sacrifice all the fun flirtations of the single life. If one man adoring her isn’t enough, then she should just stay single.” – Teddy, 22, student</p>
<p>- “Many girls take nice guys for granted. And when the jerks they end up with start breaking their hearts, they wonder what happened! Those girls should screw their heads on straight and see that nice guys are here to stay – for the long haul!” – Francis, 30, Engineer</p>
<p>- “Though the sweet, mahinhin type is appealing for many guys, we don’t particularly want to have a partner who’s as meek as a worm (read: no backbone). On a first date, girls should tell guys where they’d like to go or what they’d like to eat, and be open to their date’s suggestions as well. Guys like girls who are confident, but not too bossy.” – Patrick, 26, executive manager</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1493" title="Sweet love" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Sweet-love-300x300.jpg" alt="Sweet love" width="300" height="300" /></p>
<p><strong>Managing Relationship Expectations</strong></p>
<p>- “My ex would get infuriated with me whenever I forgot to text her, ‘Good night. I love you’ before going to bed. If I didn’t text her, I would wake up with at least 10 text messages in my mobile phone – all from her, telling me what an inconsiderate ass I was. The issue got really old very quickly and I couldn’t stand her insecurity anymore, so I dumped her.” – Mel, 33, accountant</p>
<p>- “I like a woman who has no problem with ‘guy time.’ My friends will always be a part of my life. A woman can’t replace then and she certainly can’t make me choose between her and them.” – Paulo, 27, teacher</p>
<p>- “I can’t stand it when girls get so clingy. They start whining about being alone and hopeless without me at their beck and call all day long. My ex-girlfriend used to do that and I ended up leaving her because she just didn’t understand. I have my own life and if a girl can’t handle that, then we aren’t meant.” – Dan, 29, banker</p>
<p>-“My ex had a split Jekyll and Hyde personality when it came to showing affection. She was the sweetest, most loving girl who would shower me with kisses and give me tight embraces – but only when we were alone. In public, she was as stiff and cold as a corpse. I would simply hold her hand and she would reject me. I didn’t like the fact that I couldn’t show to the world how much I adore my girl. It eventually turned me off.” – Randy, 30, graphic artist</p>
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<p>There are still more coming’ up, stick with me and you will surely know everything that man’s thinking about their girlfriends. I’m sure you will get a lot of tips from them on how to be the best girlfriend ever, win and melt their hearts. See you.</p>
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		<title>Find Out if He’s Over His Ex</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 17:05:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dating a guy who’s still hung up on a former flame is asking for heartbreak. Here are signs he hasn’t moved on.

- He talk’s trash – you may think his admission that his ex was a two-timing b#@$% is a sure sign that he’s done with her, but that degree of passion – even it it’s in the form of anger – proves that he’s still emotionally connected to her.
- He has nothing to say – once a guy has moved past a relationship, he should be able to admit it was painful or say what he learned from it. But if they were together for a stretch of time and he acts all “whatever,” it shows that he hasn’t  <a style='color:red;' href='http://myblueheart.org/filipina/find-out-if-he%e2%80%99s-over-his-ex.html' title='Click here to read more about Find Out if He’s Over His Ex'>More &#187;</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dating a guy who’s still hung up on a former flame is asking for heartbreak. Here are signs he hasn’t moved on.</p>
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<p>- <strong>He talk’s trash</strong> – you may think his admission that his ex was a two-timing b#@$% is a sure sign that he’s done with her, but that degree of passion – even it it’s in the form of anger – proves that he’s still emotionally connected to her.</p>
<p>- <strong>He has nothing to say –</strong> once a guy has moved past a relationship, he should be able to admit it was painful or say what he learned from it. But if they were together for a stretch of time and he acts all “whatever,” it shows that he hasn’t truly grieved the relationship and come out the other side.</p>
<p>- <strong>They’re best friends</strong> – though plenty of exes do wind up on decent terms, being BFF with an ex right away is sketchy. If their lives are that entwined, there’s good chance one of them is holding out for a reunion.</p>
<p>- <strong>He absolves her</strong> – whether she bailed or he let The One get away, its bad news if he thinks his last love could do no wrong. Since his imagination has reinvented her as an angel, you’ll never be competing with her halo.</p>
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<p>If he is showing this signs, it means he’s still hook up with his ex, and can’t move on. Help him forget her and do your best so that his mind will be yours forever. Be his best companion, best friend and play mate not just his girlfriend.</p>
<p>I will give you the tips on how you can be the best girlfriend.</p>
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		<title>She killed her boyfriend?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 12:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An 18 years old student has been arrested, accused by South Wales Police in killing his 22 years old boyfriend.
Her boyfriend’s body was found in the basement of her parent’s house, where she also lives. Her friends said, she got an A score in her grades and after school they went out to celebrate and continue the celebration in her parents house.
Later that night she met her boyfriend, nobody really knows what happen between her and Mr. Thomas (her boyfriend’s name). They know how much he loves Ms. McGrath (accused name).
Ms. McGrath happens to be a quite and good girl working and taking her school seriously says by her neighbors and friends. The incident really shocked them all and couldn’t  <a style='color:red;' href='http://myblueheart.org/filipina/she-killed-her-boyfriend.html' title='Click here to read more about She killed her boyfriend?'>More &#187;</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">An 18 years old student has been arrested, accused by South Wales Police in killing his 22 years old boyfriend.</span></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1398" title="the accused Ms. McGrath" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/the-accused-Ms.-McGrath.jpg" alt="the accused Ms. McGrath" width="233" height="448" /><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Her boyfriend’s body was found in the basement of her parent’s house, where she also lives. Her friends said, she got an A score in her grades and after school they went out to celebrate and continue the celebration in her parents house.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Later that night she met her boyfriend, nobody really knows what happen between her and Mr. Thomas (her boyfriend’s name). They know how much he loves Ms. McGrath (accused name).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Ms. McGrath happens to be a quite and good girl working and taking her school seriously says by her neighbors and friends. The incident really shocked them all and couldn’t believe in what had happen. They are also having second thoughts if she really can do the crime.</span></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1399" title="the victim Mr. Thomas" src="http://myblueheart.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/the-victim-Mr.-Thomas.jpg" alt="the victim Mr. Thomas" width="233" height="423" /></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Source: </span><a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1208421/A-level-student-accused-killing-boyfriend-party-celebrate-results.html#ixzz0P1AtqVRu"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">A-Level Student Accused Of Killing Boyfriend After Party To Celebrate Results</span></a><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"> [DailyMail</span></p>
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