Do you know how to attract a guy?
By Blue Rose on Friday, 7 of August , 2009 at 4:09 pm
Here’s a quiz for you to know if you’re a guy getter or not.
1. In line for the concession stand at a concert, you notice a cute guy in front of you. What do you do?
- a. Say, “Wow”, this is a long line. Lucky for me, I’m in good company.”
- b. Squeak out a “hi” that probably gets drowned out by the music.
- c. Stick 500 bucks in his back pocket and tell him the drinks are on you.
2. Are you usually comfortable with making the first move on a man?
- a. Um, does Paris Hilton like to gossip?
- b. Yes, but you always try to gauge his interest before making a play.
- c. About as comfortable as you are at the gyne!
3. At the gym, you spot a guy with a ripped body in the weight room. You:
- a. Hightail it to the locker room and vow to chat him up after you’ve taken a shower and put on some makeup.
- b. Say, “Hey there, would you mind showing me how to use that machine when you’re done with your sets?”
- c. Grab his biceps and exclaim, “Wow! Someone’s working out!”
4. How do you use your eyes when you want to reel in a man who interests you?
- a. Look toward him, then away, then at your shoes.
- b. Eye contact is a complete waste of time. You prefer to go the route of “accidental” grazing.
- c. Lock in his gaze, glance away, and then glance back flirtatiously.
5. You’ve fallen for a close guy friend. You:
- a. Comment that a mutual pal said the two of you would make a cute couple and see how he reacts.
- b. Kiss him and profess your love when you’re both tipsy.
- c. Stay silent. Why risk losing a friendship?
Scoring: 1. a-1, b-0, c-2; 2. a-2, b-1, c-0; 3. a-0, b-1, c-2; 4. a-0, b-2, c-1; 5. a-1, b-2, c-0
0 to 3 points- Flirty Fraidy Cat
You may think your M.O. is uber chill, but the truth is, making barely noticeable overtures shows you’re frozen in fear of rejection. Before heading out for the night, tap into your inner goddess by listening to sultry songs. Then, when you spot a guy you’re attracted to, “jump in with a smile and compliment to get the ball rolling”. Simply putting yourself out there is all it takes to start a connection.
4 to 6 points – Stellar Seductress
Be relying on confidence and a playful attitude – not your body – as bait, you’re alluring in more than just a physical sense. You also have a knack for knowing which men are good for flirting practice (a hot guy in a drink line) or the full-court press (a torpe pal who needs prodding). To push the envelop even further, “speak more softly when you want to hook a guy so he has to lean in to you.” advises Eve Marx, author of Read my hips.
7 to 10 points – Man Magnet
You’re so skilled in attracting a guy; your body practically has a gravitational pull. But sometimes – make that much of the time – you come on too strong. “Forcing yourself on a guy may lead to a hook up, but ultimately, it won’t be fulfilling,” says clinical psychologist Jud Kuriansky, PhD. “Instead recognize the power in restraint.” Ask a candid friend if your approach is too extreme, says Kuriansky. When you selectively deploy flirty moves, you draw guys looking for more than a fleeting night.
(Source: Cosmo magazine)
