Life and Love of a Filipina

My experiences in meeting people

By Blue Rose on Saturday, 10 of January , 2009 at 6:54 pm

I had meet different kind of men having different characteristics and ways of communicating with girls. Its quiet impractical if I will say that all the guys are like that. I know if a guy will read this one he will disagree in some aspects. I can see that, I told you all men are not the same.
Even if you are good to them still they will treat you so badly. I meet this one guy when I started working as an English tutor, I treated him just like my older brother, but what did I get..humiliation and  degradation, why I said so, because I trusted him, I treated him so nicely and good, but he still showed his selfishness and somewhat hidden agenda towards me. I’m so disappointed of his actions and thoughts.
I know I’m not allways so nice but I can say that its too good to be true. I been living in this kind of life for many years, I had meet different kinds of people all around the globe even though sometimes only on the Internet. I have known their way of life, their culture, their work, how they survive in many games of their life. I have also known their belief, their understanding of other peoples way of life.
Its so good that I had spoken with them, especially old people from other country, I can know how they work hard to have a nice and proper way of living, I understand it so much and Its really an opportunity  to have known it all.
I ones meet this man from California, he had been my friend for two months when he came here to meet his girlfriend from Pangasinan. I don’t know if they get along together very well, but I hope so and that they will end up together. I will be happy to know that. He has been so good to me, we’ve been good friends and we get along together
for sometimes. He is also nice and I can say that he has a lot of experiences through life, anyways he is already 55 years old so what do you expect?

I have a guy from Germany, he is quite cool, dandy, joker (we say it kenkoy), funny, nice, generous, but sometimes demanding and somewhat perfectionist, everything must be in set and well done, its a typical German characteristics I guess. Anyways most off the men are demanding, oh I’m sorry not only men, also women and I admit that. He is a business man. I like him anyway, we have many similarities when it comes to time and appointments. I want to be always on time when I have my appointments, specially when it comes to my teachers. I’m strict upon time, for me “time is gold” and I don’t want to waste my time in such useless things. If I can do everything in one day I want to do it, but I know its impossible I’m not a machine, even machines also have to rest.

I also have a Norwegian guy, he is so cool, we also get along together very much and I love him. He is more analytical than me, he has a lot of experiences in life, met different kinds of people. I can say that he teaches me many things in life, being analytic also and being stronger as a person. He gives me many new ideas, I can say its good and bad. I can say that it is important, that you know how to be bad sometimes, because he said not all people are nice and good, and I agree on that.
I’m not an emotional person and I can understand every situation so fast, so its easy for me to accept and analyze it. I’m not a moron, so my evaluation and analization is very important for me, if I’m going to accept it or not. I guess I will be better person or more open minded person as I continue my journey in life. I’m still young and I know I still have so many paths to follow and “many rice to eat” before I reach my goal in life. But I’m pretty sure that I can do it, I have my strong will and drive to pursue it. Also I have him by my side to help, guide and support me.

I also met a man from London, he had been a song composer here for 2 and half years. He is also nice, but honestly I just want him to be my friend. He has 4 sons all are in entertainment business, but they are all in London. His wife is a Cuban Model, but now he is divorced. He said Philippines is a nice country, because he had been traveling in different islands and beaches all around Philippines. He also told me that he is a jet setter, he had been to 20 different countries, but soon he will be back in London after 1 year.

Before, about March 2008, I met this Turkish guy in yahoo. We chatted for a long time, he is a navy pilot. He is so nice also, but a bit jealous guy. After an about 9 months of chatting he decided to come here in the Philippines to visit me and said that he will marry me. He already traveled a long way to Bangkok Thailand, but when he ready to take a plane bound to Philippines, there’s something happen to Thailand, people are having a riot and passengers couldn’t travel. They are all being hold. So he couldn’t come here, he just returned to Turkey. I don’t know if I will believe him, but he showed me his pictures in Bangkok airport. I just need an explanation and even a short messages when he is in Thailand but he did not send any. So what am I going to feel and think, I’m going crazy that time thinking what happened to him, and going crazy waiting. When I chatted with him again after that, he explained to me everything but I don’t know if I will feel the same again.

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