Are Lesbians who like butches not really gay?
By Loving Asya on Wednesday, 1 of July , 2009 at 11:37 am
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Yes! A thought on that, I have noticed that straight girls would suddenly turn gay then date a butch.
But what is a butch? Isn’t a butch a female who looks like a male, tries to dress like a male (as humanly possible) no offense to the butches out there… and I know butches would like to be referred to as men.
To really sink in the thought, it’s just a guy with a pussy.
And what if they had a surgery and replaced their pussy with penis…
doesn’t it make them males and their girlfriends straight?
A number of girls who like butches of course are bisexual, meaning they could easily go back to men as they please and these girls won’t date a femme. So what does it really say? Are they not really gay since the person they’re dating is really just another man but with a pussy attached?
Is there a butch to butch relationship?
If what’s outside does not matter then there should be a lot of happy people and any advertisements for vanity and beauty be gone forever, fashion trends and shows will be nothing but a thing of the past, I know a woman is a woman, but do u go over to a butch and say “hey woman lovely tits!” no the proper way as it should be “hey there handsome…” Most of the time, they would like to be treated as guys, aren’t they dressing/acting like men cuz of course there might be a sort of obsession, if there wasn’t we would all be femmes! We dress to what we aspire to correct? Dress slutty maybe the person wants to be a prostitute. I am not against the butch lesbians, I have a lot of butch friends, and I have never asked them if they were ever attracted to another butch. Just like guys these butches would think another butch to be a competition… comfortable dressed as a man then? I could perhaps believe that they maybe men trapped in a woman’s body.
Don’t some butches take male hormones? Cut off their breasts? And replace their genitals?? I am a lesbian and I am comfortable with my skin, I don’t need another genital to make me feel better about myself. There is this issue my friend told me, she’s a butch and she doesn’t let her femme girl friend touch her body or genitals or anywhere for that matter when their having sex. Shall I say a one way sex? So I thought of a thing… date a butch and treat her as a lady… all the lady things. I wonder how it will turn out. I like hanging out with my butch friends and I feel like I’m with guys when I’m with them. Sometimes they’re manlier than other guys. I have encountered a friend who actually dated a lesbian because she seemed to have given up on men for treating her like crap, and she has a taste for butches. I thought it was a cry for desperation… but i don’t know. I also don’t know if she was happier since she told me life was a little bit harder. I never said it was easy…
Now I think she’s in some dyke drama. Isn’t the essence of a woman to exist and reproduce to save mankind, but we all know that is not appropriate anymore, there are so darn many of us now. Human beings since the beginning of time are promiscuous if they’re not, we would have been extinct. Does a butch see herself as a bearing mother (I would like to exclude the pregnant man/butch here, since she’s/he’s one in a gazillion, [I don't even know what to refer to as!])
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And I personally don’t want to date a straight girl-turned gay girl cuz everything will be new to her and I don’t want to teach. I want someone who already knows what she’s dealing with.
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