By Miss Thea on Monday, 21 of November , 2011 at 9:00 am
Have you ever dreamed of your ex-boyfriend? or your wedding day? Me too! So I read this book about love dreams decoded and I want to share it all to you.
Whether you imagined reconnecting with your ex or your man proposing with stone less ring, love reveries can be bizarre. But it pays to dig a little to know what they mean. But how do you make sense of such off-the -wall stuff? First, recognize your feelings then try to give meaning to the images you recall. Since dreams are subjective, its impossible to give one-size fits all meaning. But to get started, check out these interpretations I have read from my book about the most common love-related fantasies.
The Dream 1: Surprise – you’re back with your ex boyfriend.
Decoded: It doesn’t necessarily mean you crave a repeat romance. But on some level, he’s influencing you. If he’s a good ex, this means that your memories with him have become a positive force in your life. Maybe he helped you feel more confident. If he was a not, then it could reflect being trapped emotionally in the old relationship or sign that you’re hanging with someone who has the same sketchy traits.
The Dream 2: Your guy betrays you, like by cheating or lying.
Decoded:Has your current guy let you down lately, such as not comforting you after a bad day? Then this is why you are getting this dream.
The Dream 3: You cheated on your man and ruined your relationship with him. Ouch!
Decoded: When a relationship starts to matter more this nocturnal fantasy will be more likely to appear. The dream may be like you are falling in love with a guy best friend. The dream is letting us know how important your current relationship is with you and that you have to take care of it.
The Dream 4: You’re engaged but there is something off about your ring. The diamonds are missing! What worst than having a stoneless engagement ring? Or it could be that the engagement ring that you have is so ugly.
Decoded: The focus of this dream is the look of the ring so it refers to appearance versus the substance of your relationship.This dream means that you don’t have security with your current flame. You seem like a perfect couple but deep inside you know that he truly doesn’t get you. In short you are not convinced that he is the one!
The Dream 5: Your wedding is strange. The groom is faceless! Arrgh!
Decoded: In this dream you are trying out what it feels like to take the next step, whether its becoming exclusive with a guy you’re casually dating or marrying your long term boyfriend. This means that you shouldn’t rush things out with him. You still have a few kinks to iron out, so you have to wait until you are sure.
My fellow ladies you can choose to believe these things or not. But I for one have had these dreams, and I am just trying to make sense of it all. And it actually came to me after reading the book , that these interpretations were true in my case. It doesn’t hurt to read an educate yourself just as long as you know how to handle these information.
By Miss Thea on Sunday, 20 of November , 2011 at 9:00 am
In the past years I have come to notice that the strongest points of being a woman is her charm, power and sex appeal. Don’t you agree girls? Each one of us has it but has not honed their skill just yet. Learn how to master these moves and it will take you to greater heights. The take-charge attitude will still get you anything you want. Let me share to you my secrets in how it take to have these all. And these characteristics will not only give you an edge to men but also to women. Read further and find out why.
First: you got to flirt shamelessly and this will make you irresistible. You have to work your way into peoples’ good graces by flattering them. As a result, those people will be happy to do favors for you. This actually worked for me when I was just starting out with my new job. It was difficult to find friends at work nowadays. Really,You would think that the workplace is like an ocean full of crabs trying to pull you down. But if you know how to get through to certain people you can overcome this obstacle in just a few. Since heaping multiple compliments on those around you can come across fake, try to figure out what the person values, like their fashion sense or their love for basketball then focus you flattery on those particular areas. Remember to never let them know that you are doing it for your own good or else it will appear fake and the person will be annoyed at you. And this is not good at all. I had this boss before who was trying to convince me not to resign. And God, she was just the worst! She would flatter me in the most insincere way in almost about anything she sees I am holding or wearing. I eventually resigned and deleted her on my Facebook account.
Second: this suggestion might draw negative reactions to you but what can I say it worked for me and most of my friends. It also worked way back in the days when Cleopatra had an affair with Julius Caesar. I am no saying to have an affair with all the powerful people around you but what I mean here is just cozying up to the people in charge. This will make you more powerful. I usually use this strategy by going to work events and introducing myself to successful people. It is also considered powerful that in order to win over people you got to speak their language. This means you need to get to know the person really hard, check out what impresses her and do it.
You might have heard of the guys saying I like a girl who acts like a dude, well its true, I watch and do sports with my guy and that’s how he fell in love with me. He told me that it was not because I’m good, to which I’m not of course, but it’s because of my competitive nature that made him want me more. It made him feel that I understood and care on what he wants to do always.
You got enemies girl? Then fear not. Keeping an eye on the person who wronged you pays off in time. She will think you are buddies and she will be consequently nicer to you yet what she doesn’t know is that you are going to figure her out on her next move before she attempts anything.
Use your charm, power and sex appeal to you advantage as long as you don’t hurt people along the way. Enjoy the privileges of being a woman! See you around!
By Miss Thea on Saturday, 19 of November , 2011 at 11:43 am
My 7 year relationship now started out as an office affair.
It started inappropriately since he was one of my bosses. I don’t really report directly under him but he definitely has authority over me.
I was persistent in going out with him, so I asked a common friend to set us up. He was not comfortable with the fact that people will know that he will be going out with a co-worker. I was not really bothered by that idea because I didn’t think that it would affect my credibility since I’m not really a decision maker of the company. Eventually after months of waiting we went out to dinner, twice. Then it became a constant thing every weekend. For months I really didn’t know our status since nobody really knows that we are out together since I understood that his position and career opportunities would be in jeopardy.
So for four months we just dated, but eventually my feelings for him grew out of hand. I started becoming clingy and was in a constant need to be with him. This was not what I planned it to be. It was supposed to be controlled but one thing I learned about feelings, you can never control or dictate them. I found it hard to tell him how I feel because I don’t want to be the one to do it first and the fact that I just got out of a messy relationship would make it more complicated. I was just supposed to have fun and date a lot of guys in this stage of my life but that was not bound to happen. For months I dated him exclusively, it was insanely difficult to pretend that i didn’t want anything more than it. Although I can also sense that he likes me too but I felt that he was not ready to make the first move. So I thought, is this guys serious? What does he want me to do, spell it out for him? It got me so pissed off that I just text-ed him how I felt. The text message said something like “I can’t see you anymore and this is getting complicated” maybe some other time. And right away he told me that he was falling in love with me! I got furious and asked him why it was taking him too long. He just told me that the idea of him dating a co worker is not really an ideal image that he wants his boss to see him with. And that he was eying for promotion and stuff. So we were officially in a relationship but we were not able to go out like normal couples do. Only 2 of our friends know about us which was very hard for me. I was like a mistress or even worse than that. It felt awful and it affected our relationship. We can’t even eat out or watch a movie together. Do you know how frustrating could that be? And this is all because we were trying to protect our jobs. Which we realized in end the by the way that it was never worth it. We agreed on who will stay in the company, it was him. He had the higher pay and position.
We started living together and I got another job and got engaged last year. I have learned such a great deal about this relationship that love and patience will truly find its course and it will be all worth it. If you are suckers for romance like me, don’t lose hope. I have found him it was a long and arduous road but it was all worth the wait. A relationship will work out if both are willing to sacrifice and compromise. If the other party doesn’t want to compromise chances are it’s not worth you time either.
