My Date Experiences with Foreign Guys
By Blue Rose on Friday, 6 of February , 2009 at 1:30 pm
My first date with a foreign man happened last December 2008, to a Norwegian guy. I meet him from the dating site named Filipina Heart. Most of the girls are afraid or nervous when they are having a date especially if its the first meet, but my feeling was unusual, because I feel at ease, anyways we already spoken to each other for a few times so its easy for me to feel comfortable. Also I can say that girls are expecting so much for their date and to their date partner, but I’m not, because I don’t want to be disappointed for some matters. I don’t expect anything or something, you know its easy to become at ease and feel comfortable if your not expecting anything, so your focus is just on him not to the expectations in your mind, if that’s the case you will enjoy knowing him in that time.
In our first date we went to Manila Ocean Park, it’s so nice, I like it very much because I love looking at the animals and fishes. Then we went to SM Mall of Asia, it is the first biggest mall in Manila. We roamed around bought some things and watched movie. We’ve been to different malls, he likes to go to the spa and massage center, but I like roaming around or just setting somewhere at the mall and read my book, while he is in the massage center. He likes reading books also, but he doesn’t like traveling to far places and going to the beach.
Then we went to Tagaytay City, I introduced him to my boss and teachers, after that we went to Peoples Park in the Sky, it’s a high place where in you can view the Taal Volcano and some parts of Tagaytay, also some places of Batangas. Anyway my Norwegian guy is so nice, he is so sweet and caring, supportive, but I can say he is also a straight forward person, what do I mean? I mean liberated, frank and blunt, yeah that’s true, anyways what do you expect from a European guy. He is funny sometimes, but he is a kind of person that is serious when it comes to business, everybody does, I guess. The days we spent together was wonderful, we shared a lot of ideas and thoughts about many things. We’ve been so comfortable with each other, and because I don’t expect much about him, now I know exactly what hes personally is and I like it very much.
My second date was with my Californian friend. I would say it’s a friendly date. He is my chat friend for 2 months. I met him in yahoo. He came here to meet his girlfriend. We meet last January 2, before I went back to my hometown. I decided to meet him because I want to know him personally.
He is also a nice guy, cool guy, he is 55 years old. He likes listening to music, just what I like also to do especially when I’m at home. He told me that he likes diving and snorkeling, outdoor activities like camping, hiking, and tours to many places; also he likes cooking and repairing things inside his house.
We ate in a restaurant, while eating he told me about his life in California what’s his job and what he does. Then I tour him around Manila and to malls. We also walked along Baywalk.
But sadly we don’t have much time to spend knowing each other, because that night I went back home. Anyways its fine, the most important of all is that I have met him personally and talk to him. Even when I’m already at home he still calls me and told me stories about meeting his girlfriend and what places they visited. He didn’t forget to call me when he is leaving the country to bid goodbye. Until now we are still friends and still sharing messages with each other. It’s good to have friends from other country.
My third date was with a German guy, I also meet him in Filipina Heart dating site, last December 3. I personally met him last January 6, it was his birthday. He’s been here for 10 years; he is running a business together with his step mom as a business partner.
I traveled from my hometown last January 5 in the evening and I met his driver at the bus station early morning of January 6, we traveled for about 1 and half hours to get to his place. Actually I felt so strange that time, because I don’t know his true attitude, even though we always talked in the INTERNET. I can say that he is a bit demanding, even in the INTERNET and when he is texting me. Some of his texts are getting into my nerves, because he is acting like I’m his property even though we don’t have any relationship.
Anyways when we reached his house, the place is so nice, with a wide garden and pool. I met his mom and aunt, they just arrived 3 days ago from Germany, they are on a vacation. They are so nice, his mother is so kind, and we talked a lot. I met his German friend and his Filipina wife, he is his Hotel Manager, and they are living in one of his apartment, right side of his house. After chatting for a few minutes we went back to his house to prepare for a big dinner together with his friends and business partners.
At about 7pm we arrived to a restaurant that he owns, some of his friends and partners are already there. I felt so strange, because most of them are Germans and I don’t know them. But they are with their Filipina wives so at least I have someone to talk with, so my night is not so boring at all. I can say that my first date with him is not so good at all.
Before I went back to work, we went to SM, together with his mom and aunt. He bought me many things, but I didn’t ask for it. His mom and aunt is the one choosing the stuff for me and if he likes it also then he will buy it. Then he gave me a silver necklace with a heart red ruby pendant, surrounded with pink diamond. It is so beautiful, his mom said, the maker of this necklace is so famous in Germany.
Then after that he told his driver to drive me back to my place in Tagaytay City. But he told me that after 1 week we are going to Bohol for 5 days vacation together with his mom and aunt. So after a week of working I have to file a 1 week vacation for me to go with them.
The time has arrived for us to go to Bohol, I met them at the airport in Manila, and we took a business class flight. Silly me but it was my first time to fly, his mom is always asking me if I’m nervous or afraid, I always say I’m OK. For the whole trip he is holding my hand for security assurance and I felt so good. It was a nice and secure flight anyway, and then it takes 25 minutes from Bohol airport to an island where we booked our hotel.
That resort is so nice, the name is Amorita Resort. It is situated on top of a pile of dried corals and it becomes a hill, it’s overlooking at the beach with white fine sand, the water is so clear and blue green. The resort has an infinity pool, it’s so cool. During sunset the sun was so beautiful with red orange rays of light on it. The staff and helpers of the resort are so friendly and nice.
On our second day there we did a whole day tour to historical places and saw the smallest primate on Earth it is called Tarsiers, it is so cute, 3 inches tall only and it has long tarsal’s(bones of the feet), that why it is called as tarsiers. Then we went to another place to see the Chocolate hills, its wonderful it’s a pile of hundred plus hills covered with grass only. Why only grass grows there? Because the salinity content of the hills are so high. Why is the salt contain is so high, because it is made up of melted corals and stones from the sea.
After that we went to Loboc river, we ate our lunch there in a floating restaurant, so while we are eating the restaurant is cruising all along the wide river. It was so nice I enjoyed it a lot.
On our third day we woke up as early as 5 am to go dolphin watching, because the dolphins are awake to eat by that time until about 7 am, after that they went to sleep. You will ask, how does the dolphin sleeps? Well they sleep by shutting down one part of their brain. After dolphin watching, we went to an island named Balicasag Island to eat breakfast, and then we hire snorkeling gadgets. I like snorkeling; I was so excited because that island is a sanctuary so I know I can see many fishes.
I am not disappointed, because it was so great, I can even touch the fishes with different colors and sizes. I held some corals in my hand and the fishes came, then I saw the school of Jack fish, it was so wonderful, they always go along together, I really love it. But I really wish I have an underwater camera so that I can take pictures of the fishes, corals and other creatures underwater.
After snorkeling, we went to Virgin Island, the island was so great, the sand is so fine and white. Why is it called the virgin island? Because it is so natural, it only about more or less 800 square meters of land.
I also got very nice pictures when we are on the plane back to manila. It’s really nice to take pictures where you are on a high place. The view from above is so great.
Now I can say that my second date with him was wonderful.
