Life and Love of a Filipina

New York Bankers Girlfriends in Trouble

By Mr.Pancake on Saturday, 24 of January , 2009 at 3:27 pm

Girlfriends in Trouble
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Achieving Your Childhood Dreams

By Mr.Pancake on Thursday, 22 of January , 2009 at 9:51 am

On September 18, 2007, computer science professor Randy Pausch stepped in front of an audience of 400 people at Carnegie Mellon University to deliver a last lecture called “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams.” With slides of his CT scans beaming out to the audience, Randy told his audience about the cancer that is devouring his pancreas and that will claim his life in a matter of months. On the stage that day, Randy was youthful, energetic, handsome, often cheerfully, darkly funny. He seemed invincible. But this was a brief moment, as he himself acknowledged.

Randy’s lecture has become a phenomenon, as has the book he wrote based on the same principles, celebrating the dreams we all strive to make realities. Sadly, Randy lost his battle to pancreatic cancer on July 25th, 2008, but his legacy will continue to inspire us all, for generations to come.

Randy’s website
Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams
Randy’s Time Management Lecture

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Purpose of existence

By Blue Rose on Monday, 19 of January , 2009 at 11:00 am

What is your purpose of existence in this world?Have you found it or proven it or done it? If not, what will you do to achieve it and finish it?
Some people just live and exist without knowing their importance and what is their task here on earth. They don’t even know why they are here, why? just to have fun, just to do what they like to do, just move with the flow, just to study and work and become rich, why? Just to have meals three times a day, just to be good and be bad, just to achieve your goals in life, is it enough?

All of us has a purpose why we are here, why we exist, why we live, why we have given life.
Better ask yourself what is your purpose of existence, if it doesn’t come up in your mind yet, try to sum it up and think about it. Do what you have to do. Prove to yourself and to others that you are worthy to be here, live and exist in this world.

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Whatever your mind can conceive and believe it can archive

By Mr.Pancake on Sunday, 18 of January , 2009 at 12:33 pm

American born Napoleon Hill is considered to have influenced more people into success than any other person in history. He has been perhaps the most influential man in the area of personal success technique development, primarily throught his classic book Think and Grow Rich which har helped million of people and has been important in the life of many highly successful people.

Napoleon Hill was born in 1883 in a one-room cabin on the Pound River in Wise County, Virginia. He began his writing career at age 13 as a “mountain reporter” for small town newspapers and went on to become America’s most beloved motivational author. Hill passed away in November 1970 after a long and successful career writing, teaching, and lecturing about the principles of success. His work stands as a monument to individual achievement and is the cornerstone of modern motivation. His book, Think and Grow Rich, is the all time bestseller in the field.

While the casual observer would believe that this book is only about making money, those of us who have studied it for years know otherwise. It’s about a better way to live a rich life. And for that I am grateful that Napoleon gave so much of himself in order that he might leave us with this incredible work.
Think and Grow Rich are now in the Public Domain and we are happy to offer it as a free download.
Think and Grow Rich pdf

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Two kinds of people in this world

By My Blue Heart on Monday, 12 of January , 2009 at 7:21 pm

There are two kinds of people in this world. Where do you belong? One is cheater and the other one is being cheated. Which one do you belong? You may say I’m a cheater, but sometimes you are also being cheated by others, don’t you think so? Or you just don’t want to admit it, because for yourself it is unacceptable? You think you are strong but you are weak. You think that your life is already destroyed so to be fair with life, you will destroy others. Is it truly your destiny and purpose of existence in this world? Cheater people doesn’t want to admit defeat thats why they are always doing the same thing to satisfy their urges in life.
The person who are always been cheated, I can say that they are a fool, don’t you think so? Why I said so? Why not, see if you are cheated once and if you are not a fool you will change your lifestyle or phase of life instantly right, but if it doesn’t came up in your mind your a 100% fool and stupid. Don’t get me wrong because I’m just telling the truth, and I’m sure you will agree also. I know there’s no such stupid and fool person, its the situation and our will that makes ourself stupid and fool. Also the fact that some people always bows and follow even though they know that it is already wrong, why do you that for? What is your reason? It must be reasonable, or else I judge you as a foolish and no brain person. But if you know how to fight and  face every  situation I can say that you are smart and strong.
So where do you belong? Don’t tell me that you don’t belong in any of those, I will not believe that. All of us belongs in either of the two. I can say that if you practice both, you are a true person, because you know how to balance and face your real aspects in life and I can say that you had proven your purpose of existence in this world.


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My experiences in meeting people

By Blue Rose on Saturday, 10 of January , 2009 at 6:54 pm

I had meet different kind of men having different characteristics and ways of communicating with girls. Its quiet impractical if I will say that all the guys are like that. I know if a guy will read this one he will disagree in some aspects. I can see that, I told you all men are not the same.
Even if you are good to them still they will treat you so badly. I meet this one guy when I started working as an English tutor, I treated him just like my older brother, but what did I get..humiliation and  degradation, why I said so, because I trusted him, I treated him so nicely and good, but he still showed his selfishness and somewhat hidden agenda towards me. I’m so disappointed of his actions and thoughts.
I know I’m not allways so nice but I can say that its too good to be true. I been living in this kind of life for many years, I had meet different kinds of people all around the globe even though sometimes only on the Internet. I have known their way of life, their culture, their work, how they survive in many games of their life. I have also known their belief, their understanding of other peoples way of life.
Its so good that I had spoken with them, especially old people from other country, I can know how they work hard to have a nice and proper way of living, I understand it so much and Its really an opportunity  to have known it all.
I ones meet this man from California, he had been my friend for two months when he came here to meet his girlfriend from Pangasinan. I don’t know if they get along together very well, but I hope so and that they will end up together. I will be happy to know that. He has been so good to me, we’ve been good friends and we get along together
for sometimes. He is also nice and I can say that he has a lot of experiences through life, anyways he is already 55 years old so what do you expect?

I have a guy from Germany, he is quite cool, dandy, joker (we say it kenkoy), funny, nice, generous, but sometimes demanding and somewhat perfectionist, everything must be in set and well done, its a typical German characteristics I guess. Anyways most off the men are demanding, oh I’m sorry not only men, also women and I admit that. He is a business man. I like him anyway, we have many similarities when it comes to time and appointments. I want to be always on time when I have my appointments, specially when it comes to my teachers. I’m strict upon time, for me “time is gold” and I don’t want to waste my time in such useless things. If I can do everything in one day I want to do it, but I know its impossible I’m not a machine, even machines also have to rest.

I also have a Norwegian guy, he is so cool, we also get along together very much and I love him. He is more analytical than me, he has a lot of experiences in life, met different kinds of people. I can say that he teaches me many things in life, being analytic also and being stronger as a person. He gives me many new ideas, I can say its good and bad. I can say that it is important, that you know how to be bad sometimes, because he said not all people are nice and good, and I agree on that.
I’m not an emotional person and I can understand every situation so fast, so its easy for me to accept and analyze it. I’m not a moron, so my evaluation and analization is very important for me, if I’m going to accept it or not. I guess I will be better person or more open minded person as I continue my journey in life. I’m still young and I know I still have so many paths to follow and “many rice to eat” before I reach my goal in life. But I’m pretty sure that I can do it, I have my strong will and drive to pursue it. Also I have him by my side to help, guide and support me.

I also met a man from London, he had been a song composer here for 2 and half years. He is also nice, but honestly I just want him to be my friend. He has 4 sons all are in entertainment business, but they are all in London. His wife is a Cuban Model, but now he is divorced. He said Philippines is a nice country, because he had been traveling in different islands and beaches all around Philippines. He also told me that he is a jet setter, he had been to 20 different countries, but soon he will be back in London after 1 year.

Before, about March 2008, I met this Turkish guy in yahoo. We chatted for a long time, he is a navy pilot. He is so nice also, but a bit jealous guy. After an about 9 months of chatting he decided to come here in the Philippines to visit me and said that he will marry me. He already traveled a long way to Bangkok Thailand, but when he ready to take a plane bound to Philippines, there’s something happen to Thailand, people are having a riot and passengers couldn’t travel. They are all being hold. So he couldn’t come here, he just returned to Turkey. I don’t know if I will believe him, but he showed me his pictures in Bangkok airport. I just need an explanation and even a short messages when he is in Thailand but he did not send any. So what am I going to feel and think, I’m going crazy that time thinking what happened to him, and going crazy waiting. When I chatted with him again after that, he explained to me everything but I don’t know if I will feel the same again.

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Being nice

By Blue Rose on Saturday, 3 of January , 2009 at 1:51 pm

Is it good to be nice? Or Is it good to be bad sometimes? Don’t you think so?
Having a good attitude and character sometimes makes me tired, why did I say so? Because based on my experiences most of the people I had meet, I can say they are a bit bad and selfish. I know there is no such perfect person in this world..but even for a few good attitude I cant see on them, isn’t it a bit odd, or I am just unlucky, don’t  you think so? Anyways all of us have different experiences when it comes to men or women, am I right?
Sometimes we are afraid or shy to share it with others, we thought they are going to judge us as what they had heard not the way they had seen it. Its the biggest problem when it comes to human, I think so. Humans are good in judging other persons characteristics and acts even without the necessary trials..or they are already making up conclusions without investigating and digging up the truth right? If I am wrong you can discuss it with me…but don’t judge me so fast because of the things I’m saying..ok. Is it good to be nice in any ways? Or is it good to be nice and bad sometimes? Maybe you will agree if I will tell you my experiences about it.
Ok let me put it this way, in my 20 years of existence I rarely experience good things that happen to me caused by good persons. Or I’m just too good to be true…don’t take it too seriously… I’m just a typical girl who likes to meet a good man, its every girls dream..but I don’t think it ever exist..do you agree with me? Please let me read your comment below.


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